‘At least it is done’ is the main thing we took out of yesterday. Team Trenowden has had less bumpy days, it is safe to say.
I spoke to Brendan (surgeon) midway through the operation. He found the tumour to be worse than he thought. A real tangle and he was very despondent. He and his team worked very hard to untangle things and in the end things worked out better than he anticipated.
Surgery complete Brens is in ICU. Our friend Phillippa (ICU nurse from last time) has been in attendance and I can’t emphasise what a fantastic thing this has been for me. A calm, steady and reassuring hand. The toll on Brenda cannot be understated. Her muscle wastage was plain to see for everyone and that basketball on her tummy didn’t just get there of it’s own accord. I think we all knew things were pretty serious.
As I write to the rhythm of her ventilator we wait for her to be bought round. She has been fighting the sedative so she is ready to rejoin us all at about 9am.
ABBA on the radio, she’ll be dancing before we know it.
ABBA is very fitting. Big love to you both. So pleased it’s done xx
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ABBA is very fitting. Big love to you both. So pleased it’s done. Madelaine xx
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Indeed, at least it’s done. Sending lots of love. Time to think about getting that tree up x
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Hang in there Trend. Tons of love to you all xxxx
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So pleased for you all that the bumpy road of yesterday is in the rear-view mirror. Sending you hugs and love for the days ahead x
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Thank you for the honest update. It means alot. Phillippa sounds something of a guardian angel.
Keeping Brenda and your family very much in my thoughts today.
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Sending our love and best wishes for a speedy recovery-be kind to yourselves-you truly wonderful lot xxx
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You all in my thoughts and prayers. Can’t wait to see her up and dancing to ABBA!! X
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Thank you for the update during such a difficult find for you all.
Sending my best wishes to you all x
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Thinking of you all. So pleased and relieved that this is behind you. Sending much love, hugs and wishes that the road ahead will be smoother xx
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Trend. Thank you for writting. In I am sure challenging time for you . Please give Brenda the biggest virtual hug from me and many others . She is our Wonder Woman and she will win this battle . Sending her and the entire family lots of positive vibres . xx Nadine
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Many thanks for keeping us updated – sounds just like Brenda fighting the sedative! Have never known such a fighter as Brenda is- please give her a huge hug and dance from her team at 40 Bank St. Brenda is always in my prayers.
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Team Trenowden, what a journey with massive bumps but also full of love and life.
Good to know it is done and look forward to the next update
Sending you light and energy,
Xx, Gabi
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Hang in there. Tons of love to you all. Nicola and Warwick xx
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If anyone can do this, you guys can. So pleased to hear they managed to get the tumour out and de-tangled. Now for patience and love to help her body and mind heal. You are surrounded by love, family and friends – rightly so. Sending lots and lots of love 💕
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Speedy recovery from here onwards and smooth road ahead. Thank you for the update.
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We’re right there with you, all our love and prayers coming your way.
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Much love to you all and glad to hear you’ve got support where you need it. Looking forward to hearing more.
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Sorry posted too early! Looking forward to hearing more when she is awake and asking questions. Much love.
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You got this Bren!! Lots of love, Colleen
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Grateful for the good things as you say Trend – and that Team Trend includes such caring and expert professionals – look after yourself too.
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Hugs all around Trend!
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Lots of love Brenda. Thinking of you!
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Dear Trend,
Many thanks for the update. We are all hoping for the best and it is good that Brenda’s old team is with her again. Courage is what we all need at this time. Our best wishes to Teddy and Indy. Much love, Ken and Heather >
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The most amazing news and so grateful for Dr Brendan and team. Wonderful news about Phillipa – she is so lovely and glad she is there with you! Can’t wait to have a kitchen dance with “animal”. Xo
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Thinking of you both x
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The Bonz sends his love as do David and I. Thinking of you all! X
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Thinking of you Brenda and Family.XO
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Thank you for the update. Thinking of you all . Keeping my fingers crossed for the dancing queen … Pam x
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Sending love and best wishes!
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Trend
What a trying journey this has been and what strength Brenda has had. Thank god it went better then Expected. God bless you both and nothing better than ABBA!
Thanks for the update.
Xxooo
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Thanks so much for the update, way to go Bren. Blast ABBA it’s good for the soul ! 🎶
Sending much love from 🇨🇦 Louise & Graeme
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Trend, just read your post on Brenda’s surgery from yesterday. Do please give her our love – she’s a fighter and we look forward to hearing of her recovery. Matthew & Buzz xxx 🐝
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Very thankful to hear it went by the sounds of things as well as it could. And glad you have that support Trend. Sending love to you both. ❤️
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Sending positive vibes….love hugs and prayers to all!
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Thanks so much for the update Trend. We’re all thinking of you and with you in spirit. Thank goodness Brenda is in such capable hands. Sending you all loads of love. Keep playing the 80s favourites! xxx
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